Positive Only . . . Please!
Update 10.20.02
Here is what a respondent wrote:
As Armenians we pick on each other for no reason. I hate to see the same
thing happen here on this website. So, here is what I ask: Can we have another
page with positive comments only . . . please! I find myself losing hope in
marriage altogether. Sure, you want to go out there and struggle, but at the end
of the day, you want to read something inspirational.
In response to this request, on this page we will try to place the positive comments only without any critical ones. Hopefully this will be inspirational and be complementary to other pages.
Since God has given me the desire for marriage, then I know that I will meet my soul mate. So, it is up to me to prepare myself for that moment, which I am sure is just around the corner.
I am beginning to relax about finding a soul mate, mostly because I know I can live without one. Now that I don't feel pressured, I am even enjoying looking for a soul mate.
I had so many requirements of my soul mate . . . and I used to get overwhelmed. No, I have set all those aside and I asking God to show the person with the good heart.
I was afraid of making mistakes in choosing a soul mate. Now, I am trusting that God will help me choose the right one. So I am enjoying every woman I meet without worrying or being pressured in thinking if "this is the one or not."
The last few months I have learned to think more about the person I am looking for, the life I hope we will create together, rather than 'push' for finding a soul mate. This has really taken off a lot of pressure from me.